21. lousiana. italian. strange and unusual. selfies and thoughts
Friendly reminders;
-Mental illness isn’t an excuse for abusing people, nor is it a “get out of jail free” card in terms of abusive actions.
-If you’re an abusive asshole you’re an abusive asshole, mental illness or no.
-Forgive yourself if you were driven deeper into your own mental illness by an abusive mentally ill partner.
-It’s ok to leave relationships with an abusive mentally ill person in order to save yourself - no matter how they try to spin the story or guilty you.
-It takes time to heal after long term abuse. It’s ok to be angry - it’s ok to not forgive them.
(via camdamage)
